February 24, 2010

What defines a Man?

What defines a man?
What are the characteristics of a man?
Does wealth have an effect on what defines a man?

The are many definitions on what defines a man?
Society has taught me that a man is one that doesn't
show any signs of hurt,that a man should never cry
even if the hardships that he encounters give him a reason
to cry,he should just keep on a straight face because that's what
he is suppose to do.Is this what really defines a man?

Why is it that a man is not suppose to have any sort of connection
with what brings tears to his eyes? Does pretending to be strong
prove that i'm strong or does feeling sad or even crying make me less
of a man?I Don't know maybe we should give the word[ man] a new definition
maybe a man is one that is honest with himself,one that can be vulnerable and
admit that he is going through a tough time and acknowledges that he needs help
and he needs people around him,people that won't help him vent but will actually help him realise that it is okay to feel down and out but there is always hope for every dark cloud has a silver lining.So maybe yall can help me in your own words what does being a man mean to you

February 4, 2010

Ayobanisms

Ayobaness is when we have great food from different cultures together....